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This is my attempt to try to lift those who are down. When I was a little girl I lost some one dear to me to suicide. For me that was enough to keep me alive, for some, I know that is not the case. This year I almost lost my dad to suicide. I know there are many other personal issues out there I tend to try to address. If you need some one to talk to, you can contact me. I will keep everything you confide in me confidential. If you have any advice, suggestions, or ideas I will be more than happy to hear them & I will make sure you get the credit.

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There are many people & places that need help. I know times are tight, but if you could try to help, please, do. If you have more causes or you & your family simply need help, contact me here.

  1. Every day 178 dogs, 59 cats, 584 guinea pigs, 195 primates, 576 rabbits, 400 hamsters, and hundreds of thousands of rats and mice suffer and die in labs. Help!
  2. STOP SEAL CLUBBING In 2004, 365,971 seals were slaughtered, and during the 2003 season 283,497 harp seals were killed. In 2002, the sealers slaughtered over 312,000 although the kill quota was set at 275,000. There were no legal consequences for the quota overkill. Instead, the Canadian government rewarded the kill quota violations with an incredible increase of 75,000 seals!
  3. Right here is a family that are living on the streets because they couldn’t make rent. None of them do drugs, they just hit a real rough patch. Donate Here
  4. Here is Stella’s Voice. For twenty years, this ministry has been a part of the lives of thousands of orphans, providing Christmas gifts, warm coats, food, supplies, heating oil, clean water, and so much more. Donate or start a fundraiser
  5. Support the Fight to Help Starving Polar Bears

    Polar bears in the Hudson Bay are going hungry. A warming planet means there is less solid ice for them to hunt for seals on, and as a result, more polar bears and their cubs are starving to death. Scientists are already reporting that they expect an increase in polar bear cannibalism of young cubs related to food shortages.

  6. Speak up for things you believe in here.
  7. Bodyline has been in a number of rumored scandals, this is one where the Elegant Gothic Lolita community can find a true source from an ex-employee of the company itself. Yoshiko was the designer and model of Bodyline for a few years, steadily improving the PR and quality of the poorly operated company. However, she does not get paid well, on top of that, she has to buy all the Bodyline dresses herself. She had moved to China and lived in the residence of Bodyline’s factory and started getting health issues—having to model even when she was ill… Read moreSign Here
  8. Planned Parenthood: Your gift will help support Planned Parenthood’s work at the local and national level, where Planned Parenthood provides clinical services, comprehensive, accurate health information, and works to ensure universal access to comprehensive, quality, affordable health care. (Link cutesy of  http://radishson.tumblr.com)

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starlyclimler:

Period is different for everyone.
I actually always liked masturbating with my tampon before I actually put it in. Sex may not sound pleasureful to some when they are on their periods, but it can help tons to orgasm (at anytime, really). There are also many girls who have a large increase in their sex drive while on their period. I am one of them. If this happens, you can still masturbate or have sex, the blood flow normally slows or stops during sexual activity, but still make sure you clean up well afterwards.
If you are on your period for more than a week talk to your doctor instantly!
TIP: Never wear nice underwear while your on your period. I have a few different panties I like to wear during this time (I recommend black panties).
Not everyone gets this emotional on their period. I stay one mood all day during this time. Some experience no change at all.
There are many things to ease pain, since no one person is the same. My remedy is tea. However, if you’re cramping up this bad & nothing seems to help talk to your doctor instantly!

starlyclimler:

  1. Period is different for everyone.
  2. I actually always liked masturbating with my tampon before I actually put it in. Sex may not sound pleasureful to some when they are on their periods, but it can help tons to orgasm (at anytime, really). There are also many girls who have a large increase in their sex drive while on their period. I am one of them. If this happens, you can still masturbate or have sex, the blood flow normally slows or stops during sexual activity, but still make sure you clean up well afterwards.
  3. If you are on your period for more than a week talk to your doctor instantly!
  4. TIP: Never wear nice underwear while your on your period. I have a few different panties I like to wear during this time (I recommend black panties).
  5. Not everyone gets this emotional on their period. I stay one mood all day during this time. Some experience no change at all.
  6. There are many things to ease pain, since no one person is the same. My remedy is tea. However, if you’re cramping up this bad & nothing seems to help talk to your doctor instantly!

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Source: starlyclimler

I got this question from someone today:

I’m moving to college in less than a year and I’m scared of not being able to make friends. I don’t even know how I have friends but I’m sure I wasn’t the one to introduce myself and make friends with them. How would you make friends and make a good impression if you were in my place?

I thought some of you may have some good answers.

Tagged: questionhow tofriendshelpanswerq&aq and aadvice

Source: xlovexyourselfx

It makes me nearly cry every time I see someone so beautiful & they can’t see even one good thing about them. Why can’t they recognize their own beauty? I just want you to see what I see.

Tagged: beautifulbeautylove yourselfplease?thinspoproanapromiaedhelphelping hand

Source: starlyclimler

Does anyone know if Planned Parenthood has a donation site?

I’d like to put them on my donations page.

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axelaustteam:

DONATIONS NEEDED PLEASE HELPOracle suffered a horrible injury…someone kicked her in the head…Read the pic descriptions for more information. Humane Society of Henderson County KY 203 Drury Lane Henderson, KY 42420 270-826-8966By: Humane Society of Henderson County


As you can see in this picture, she has alot of infection and swelling left. It will be several weeks, if not months, before we can offer this poor kitty for adoption. She does NOT have an upper resp infection. That infection in the eye is strictly from the infection in the ear draining into her sinus cavities.http://hshcky.chipin.com/oracle-cat

axelaustteam:

DONATIONS NEEDED PLEASE HELP

Oracle suffered a horrible injury…someone kicked her in the head…Read the pic descriptions for more information. Humane Society of Henderson County KY 203 Drury Lane Henderson, KY 42420 270-826-8966
By: Humane Society of Henderson County
As you can see in this picture, she has alot of infection and swelling left. It will be several weeks, if not months, before we can offer this poor kitty for adoption. She does NOT have an upper resp infection. That infection in the eye is strictly from the infection in the ear draining into her sinus cavities.
http://hshcky.chipin.com/oracle-cat

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Source: axelaustteam

SIGN THE PETITION! Help Yoshiko! (Ex-Bodyline Model/Employee!) →

starlyclimler:

lolitahime:

This is absolutely terrible! I didn’t know Bodyline would do this. ( >  < ) Please sign the petition to help Yoshiko! 

Bodyline, a Chinese-based company that produces cheap clothing for the Japanese street fashion: Lolita—which is based on modesty of the figure and Victorian or Rococo-styled clothing. Bodyline, however, contrasts with the innocent and modest fashion image it has today, as known by many followers of the company; Bodyline was originally a sex costume shop. Although Bodyline has been in a number of rumored scandals, this is one where the Elegant Gothic Lolita community can find a true source from an ex-employee of the company itself. Yoshiko was the designer and model of Bodyline for a few years, steadily improving the PR and quality of the poorly operated company. However, she does not get paid well, on top of that, she has to buy all the Bodyline dresses herself. She had moved to China and lived in the residence of Bodyline’s factory and started getting health issues—having to model even when she was ill. Even though Bodyline has a number of unpleasant activities going on, she kept to herself, hoping things to improve. Yoshiko then makes a trip to Europe, and an incident happens at Bodyline that causes her to decide to quit; and when she requests to get her belongings sent back, they have refused and had blocked all ways for her to contact them. We must protect any other potential future model entrees and get Yoshiko back her personal articles!

Bodyline annually holds a contest to search for a model and promises the winner will be “invited by BODYLINE and will spend great week in Japan…BODYLINE will pay” for the “Airplane ticket and hotel!”, and also a “romantic dinner with Mr. Yan”. Although some girls have declined romantic advances from Mr. Yan, BODYLINE has made a winner of the model contest pay for her airfare and hotel after declining; another girl was proposed to; Mr. Yan had stated he wanted to marry her and she “could have boyfriends” but must have sex with him. Do not buy from Bodyline, instead if you want cheap prices, support TaoBao shops or Japanese lolita brand clothing companies. We all need to stop Bodyline from smearing Lolitas’ names and protect our fellow Lolitas as these modeling contests are just a front for Mr. Yan’s search for a foreign sex toy. Sign the petition and e-mail Mr. Yan and demand justice for his poor behavior. 

I almost entered their contest.

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Source: lolitahime

Donation Page is up!

Visit, donate, share!

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Source: starlyclimler

withlove-halo:

valllllery:

Tumblr, please spread this story. 
There’s a girl that I grew up with, and she was/is my best friend. Her name is Olivia Anderson, she’s 17 and a junior in high school. I’m convinced she is the worlds nicest girl. She gave up her time, money, and everything she earned for the benefit of others. Olivia stuck up for every single person she witnessed being bullied, and she stood up for what she believed in and didn’t let anyone bring her down. She was very family oriented, her family is her world. Three years ago, her parents were killed in a car accident on their way to pick her up from her dance competition. Ever since it was only her and her brother, Jake who’s 24. Today, May 24th 2011, she was diagnosed with leukemia. She’s already begun treatment but her chances of survival are slim. Please, spread the word and keep her in your prayers. She doesn’t deserve this, she deserve’s the world and beyond. Get well soon Olivia, I love you so much. ♥

REBLOG THIS.Dont just scroll past. This girl deserves this.
God bless her.

Another attempt to raise awareness.

withlove-halo:

valllllery:

Tumblr, please spread this story.

There’s a girl that I grew up with, and she was/is my best friend. Her name is Olivia Anderson, she’s 17 and a junior in high school. I’m convinced she is the worlds nicest girl. She gave up her time, money, and everything she earned for the benefit of others. Olivia stuck up for every single person she witnessed being bullied, and she stood up for what she believed in and didn’t let anyone bring her down. She was very family oriented, her family is her world. Three years ago, her parents were killed in a car accident on their way to pick her up from her dance competition. Ever since it was only her and her brother, Jake who’s 24. Today, May 24th 2011, she was diagnosed with leukemia. She’s already begun treatment but her chances of survival are slim. Please, spread the word and keep her in your prayers. She doesn’t deserve this, she deserve’s the world and beyond. Get well soon Olivia, I love you so much. ♥

REBLOG THIS.Dont just scroll past. This girl deserves this.

God bless her.

Another attempt to raise awareness.

Tagged: lukemiaawarenesshelp

kkitkathryn:

jaayarelle:

I dare you.

I dare you to watch this and not get goosebumps.

I dare you to watch this and not learn something.

I dare you to watch this and expand your tiny worldview.

I dare you to watch this and picture yourself in one of those beautiful girls’ shoes.

I dare you to watch this and not cry.

I dare you to watch this and not be grateful for the life you live, no matter how challenging it may seem at times.

I dare you to watch this and not go to bed tonight, unharmed and safe from predators, in your warm and comfortable bed and not say a silent thank you for the life you live.

I dare you.

I just cried…

I know this is a little depressing, but, this is to anyone who wants to help make a difference or rise awareness.

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Source: buthavenotlove

1 in 5 teens had thought about suicide, about 1 in 6 teens had made plans for suicide, and more than 1 in 12 teens had attempted suicide in the last year. As many as 8 out of 10 teens who commit suicide try to ask for help in some way before committing suicide. Reblog if you’re always there to listen.

veggiesushie:

I’ll try to help, but I’ve learned that I’m not very good. ;; I really care, though.

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